Life Style
Comparing your partner with others bad for relationship
Toronto: Do you often compare your partner with someone else’s when it comes to children’s homework or household chores? Well, be careful as this may be detrimental to your relationship, shows research.
According to researchers from the University of Toronto, people do compare their partner to others with significant negative consequences for the relationship.
Whether or not someone protects a partner from the negative implications of comparisons depends on the degree to which they view themselves and their partner as one unit.
This phenomenon has been dubbed “self-other overlap” by psychologists.
“People who are low in self-partner overlap have difficulty maintaining positive partner perceptions following threatening comparisons of their partner to others. This may be a key source of stress and conflict in people’s relationships,” said Sabrina Thai, psychology PhD candidate.
On the other hand, people who are high on ‘self-other overlap’ will attempt to protect their partner and minimise the threat by rating the trait or skill that they compared their partner on as less important.
Furthermore, these people are able to maintain positive views of their partner in spite of unfavourable comparisons.
“They still see their partner as being close to their ideal partner, which has positive implications on their relationship,” Thai said in a paper that appeared in the journal Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.
By highlighting the benefits of high “self-partner overlap”, this research may identify a possible future intervention technique.
“Perhaps temporarily boosting someone’s perceptions of ‘self-partner overlap’ may help them cope with and overcome the negative outcomes of comparing their partner,” the authors said.
Health
These three drinks can be a blessing for your gas and acidity problems
ily foods, spicy dishes, fried fares… Done it all and regretting it? If you’re suffering from acid reflux, you probably know what to eat and what to avoid. But is there anything to relieve you from such digestive issues? Well, there are certain drinks for acidity to improve your digestive health, if you consume them regularly.
Ready to find out? Let’s go!
In an Instagram video, nutritionist and health coach Neha Ranglani has suggested that to calm your acid reflux, you need to help your food get digested well. This can be done by improving your stomach acid production and healing your stomach cells. And these drinks that she has suggested, can help with just that, allowing you to digest your food well without the burn.
Here are 6 drinks for acidity:
1. Cucumber juice
Cucumber is a favourite salad ingredient in summer because of its cooling properties. Consuming cucumber juice can be really beneficial for relievingacid reflux because it is highly nutritious as it provides your body with both fibre and water which is needed for better digestion and has a low calorie volume. What’s more? It can also keep you full and help you avoid reaching out to junk foods!
2. Lemon water
Lemon can do you a world of good! Being rich in vitamin C and B and minerals such as phosphorus, calcium, and magnesium—drinking lemon water regularly will not only help you burn fat but will resolve your digestive issues such as acidity. Moreover, lemon water contains laxative properties that can help improve your bowel movements and clear toxins from the body, keeping you hydrated.
3. Ginger water
Ginger aka adrak, is a very well known ingredient that has been used for ages to help relieve acidity and gas. Also, if you are facing digestive issues due to overeating or undigested food, consuming ginger water can help in emptying your stomach. You can also consume it by adding it to soups, subzi or curry, and even tea. Remember that you’re not allowed to consume ginger in excess amounts.